Gratitude Challenge

There are many people in your life that deserve to be thanked – for lifting your spirits, offering advice, helping out and simply being who they are. Sadly, we don’t say, “Thank-You” enough. I challenge you for the month of November to learn to make gratitude a part of your everyday life by showing appreciation to a different person each day with a handwritten note, a pleasant phone call or a thoughtful email. So, over the 31 days of November, that’s 31 heartfelt thank-yous. Make is the start of an important lifelong practice.

There are many ways to say, “Thank-You”. A few suggestions:

“I appreciate the way you…….”

“I love it when……….”

“Because of you I can……..”

“ I’m honored that you are willing to……”

“I admire your strength in……..”

Phone Booth

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Back when I was still refereeing basketball, Betty and I decided to take a trip to Seattle, Washington. Those were the days when Canadian Airlines were flying into and out of Dawson Creek. Usage was so good that they added a “red eye” flight to Vancouver, leaving Dawson Creek about 11:30 at night. And for only $99 round trip per passenger. Being the frugal couple that we were, we decided to take that flight. Since, through basketball and business, I had been numerous times to Vancouver, I said I would make all the arrangements. Now this was in the days before the internet and therefore no Google nor booking on line. So by phone, I booked our flights, reserved a car rental at the Vancouver airport and reserved over-night rooms for us at the hotel I stayed at when refereeing games in the Vancouver area. This hotel was owned by two brothers. One of whom was involved in basketball and the other was an official for the Canadian Football League. It was in a quiet area not too far from the airport and was a nice place to stay. Since we knew each other, I knew they would provide nice rooms for us.

And the appointed evening arrived.

  • We boarded the plane, arriving in Vancouver about 1:00 a.m. No problem.
  • The rental car was waiting just like I ordered. No problem.
  • Off we drove and since I knew how to get there, No map.
  • And we arrived at the hotel about 1:30 am. No problem. Wrong!

The name of the hotel I reserved rooms at was not the name of the hotel we were sitting in front of. Somehow when I phoned information for the hotel number I gave the wrong name of the hotel and the operator gave me a number which I had phoned and made the reservation. And it wasn t this place. 2 am, no map and I had no idea where the location of my reservation was. But all is not lost. I have the address of the place we were supposed to be at. Excellent, you say. Not quite. I wasn t aware that street numbers in Vancouver continue from the city on into it s suburbs. So I drove. And drove. But could not find that address. Things are a little tense inside the car, but salvation was at hand. Driving by an empty lot, Betty saw a phone booth sitting in the middle of it. For those who do not know what a phone booth is, it is an enclosed space, complete with a roof and a door. Above the door is a light and inside is a phone that you can use if you have the right coins to make your call. Since I also had the phone number for where I had made arrangements, I was instructed by my wife that all I had to do was make the call and ask for directions. Simple, you say. Not in my world. I dutifully got out into the dark night, walked into that empty lot, glancing around to locate any nefarious individuals who shouldn t be there, and went into the booth. I read the instructions which indicated that I needed 15 cents to make the call. Horror of horrors, when I dug into my pocket for change, all I had was quarters. The instructions, advised me that I could use a quarter, but there would be no change given back. So I left the booth and walked back to my rental car. When I told Betty that I hadn t made the call and the reason I hadn t, well I guess you can fill in her words she said to me.

I do not remember what words I said to him, however I do remember what he said to me. He said, the call cost .15, all I had was a quarter, they give no change – I was not going to waste .10.

Now, my grandkids won t even stop when walking to pick up a quarter which someone had dropped.

And that is my story and I am sticking to it.

Now it is your turn – tell us a story